Welcoming a new puppy into your life is a very exciting experience. Unfortunately, this exciting time often comes with a lot of advice, and it’s hard to know what is myth or fact. Here are three common puppy socialization myths and the correct alternatives to keep your pup in good behavioral shape!

Myth #1: New people should give your puppy treats.

Truth #1: Treats should come from you when your puppy is around new people.

The goal of socialization is to associate new experiences with positive outcomes. However, for nervous puppies, having strangers offer treats can create a stressful situation. Instead, take the lead by offering treats yourself in the presence of new people. This way, your puppy learns to associate unfamiliar faces with delightful rewards from someone who your puppy knows is safe, gradually building positive associations and confidence.

Myth #2: Your puppy just needs more exposure.

Truth #2: Your puppy needs mindful and joyful exposure.

Exposure alone isn't enough to build confidence in your puppy. Bombarding them with new experiences can overwhelm and intensify their anxiety. What they truly need is mindful exposure – introducing them to new things only when you know they are having a good time. Pay attention to their cues and body language, prioritizing quality over quantity to foster resilience. “He seems fine” isn’t sufficient when your puppy’s confidence is at stake.

Myth #3: It’s just a fear period and will pass.

Truth #3: Fear should be addressed at any and all ages.

Attributing your puppy's fear to a passing "fear period" can be detrimental to their emotional well-being. While it's true that dogs may experience temporary periods of heightened sensitivity, you can’t know in the moment whether this is one of those times or if it’s your puppy’s true temperament starting to show. Rather than hoping the storm passes, address your puppy's fears with compassion and patience, regardless of their age. Don’t delay seeking professional guidance if needed. By acknowledging and actively addressing their fears, you empower your puppy to navigate the world with resilience and confidence.

Nurturing a nervous puppy requires challenging common socialization myths with empathy and understanding - for our puppies as well as for ourselves. By reframing our approach to socialization, prioritizing positive associations, mindful exposure, and proactive fear management, we can help our best friends grow into confident adults. Every puppy deserves a nurturing environment where their fears are acknowledged and their journey to confidence is supported every step of the way.